Wednesday, July 21, 2010

DRESS TO KILL


Does marriage mean women can't dress neatly and attractively at home and even at work?
I say NO to that perception because as soon as you get married,you have to dress to look sharp and presentable to honour your husband especially.
This should also serve as an example to young ladies or those who are getting into marriage.Many people are at the opinoin that married women should ofen wear traditional slit and kaba,an African print or long dress to cover their bodies,but i protest.
Married Women can wear any attractive but decent dress at anytime especially at home and work.
Some married women just wear dress which are not presentable or even attractive.They leave their hair so unkempt and mistyled at times,friends and relatives try to advice them but they question if they are now searching for husbands.This behaviour drives away men because most men are attracted by what they see.
When married men see young and funshionable ladies,some are easily attracted to them and end up going out or going out or dating them.They tend to neglect their wives and spend so much on these young ladies.
Even when they are supposed to go for a funchion with their wives, they rather prefer these young ladies because their wives can't dress neatly and attractively and no man will love to go to function who will disgrace him with her dressing,because many men loves to be praised.Most married women dont know how to dress appropriately.They have a misconception that since you are married,dressing is not all that needed.
As sooon as married me start to date a fashionable or a lady who dress appropriately,they reduce the amount of house-keeping money meant for their wives and children to the young ladies.
Dressing appropriately means married women should know which dress will be suitable or acceptable for a particular circumstance or occasions.Most married women are fond of putting on cover cloth on their waist and even in the bedroom while they are about to sleep.
Instead of wearing night wears or something suitable for sleeping,they wear attires which are not suitable for bedrooms.
Most people blame and insult men for chasing after young ladies while married without finding reasons why it happens that way.
As we are learning to dress to kill husbands,let's also learn how to treat our husbands well because no man will love to be with a rude,nagging and discouraging woman.
Iam pleading with married married women to dress attractively but decently and also respect their hhusbands at home and even outside to make their husbands proud and maintain them to reduce the rate at which broken homes are occurring in societies.

1 comment:

  1. please you can also send me your views on this issue and also a topic u would want me to discuss to the public

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